Final Resting Place

Choosing a final resting place is one of the most personal and significant decisions a family can make. Whether you're honoring a loved one or planning ahead for peace of mind, selecting the right cemetery involves more than location—it’s about legacy, tradition, and comfort.

5/6/20242 min read

1. 📍 Consider Location and Accessibility

Start with location. Many families choose a cemetery near home to make visits easier. Others prefer a peaceful rural setting or a burial site near family roots.

Ask yourself:

  • Is it close enough for loved ones to visit regularly?

  • Is the cemetery easily accessible for elderly family members?

  • Are the grounds open daily and well-maintained?

👉 Tip: Use our Cemetery Finder Tool to browse local options by zip code and view on a map.

2. 💰 Understand Pricing and Long-Term Costs

Cemetery costs vary based on burial type, plot location, and included services. Some cemeteries charge extra for headstone installation, maintenance, or perpetual care.

Cost considerations may include:

  • Plot or niche purchase price

  • Opening/closing (interment) fees

  • Headstone and marker costs

  • Ongoing maintenance or “endowment care” fees

Always request a General Price List (GPL) and compare more than one location.

3. ⚰️ Choose the Type of Burial

Not all cemeteries offer the same types of burials. Clarify your preferences before narrowing your options.

Common burial types:

  • Traditional in-ground burial

  • Cremation (inurnment in a niche or burial of urn)

  • Mausoleum or crypt entombment

  • Green or natural burial (eco-friendly, minimal embalming)

Some cemeteries also offer pet burial sections or allow family plots to be reserved together.

4. 🌿 Evaluate the Grounds and Aesthetics

Cemeteries vary widely in their look and feel. Visit in person if possible or browse our photo galleries online.

Look for:

  • Cleanliness and landscaping

  • Walking paths and benches

  • Scenic views or peaceful surroundings

  • Water features, sculptures, or religious symbols

A cemetery should reflect the dignity and respect you wish to provide.

5. 📜 Review the Rules and Regulations

Every cemetery has its own policies. Some limit the types of headstones allowed, seasonal decorations, or the placement of flowers and mementos.

Before choosing:

  • Ask for a copy of the cemetery’s regulations

  • Inquire about monument types and size limits

  • Find out their policy on personal touches (flags, lighting, etc.)

This ensures your tribute will remain as intended.

6. ⛪ Consider Religious or Cultural Needs

Many families prefer cemeteries affiliated with their religion, culture, or traditions. Certain cemeteries accommodate:

  • Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, or other religious rites

  • Veteran services and honors

  • Cultural customs such as incense, ceremonial garments, or prayers

Your funeral director or clergy may offer guidance based on your beliefs.

7. 🕰️ Think About the Future

Is the cemetery financially stable and well-managed? Does it offer options for future generations?

Ask:

  • Is the cemetery expanding or nearly full?

  • Do they offer pre-need (advance) planning?

  • What is their maintenance plan for the next 20–50 years?

Choosing a cemetery with long-term upkeep ensures your loved one’s resting place remains cared for over time.

8. 🧭 Take Your Time

This decision doesn’t have to be rushed. Visit multiple cemeteries, ask questions, and include your family in the process.

If you're planning ahead for yourself, involve your loved ones so they understand your wishes and can honor them confidently.

Final Thoughts

The right cemetery is more than just a location—it’s a lasting tribute to a life lived. By doing your research and using tools like our Cemetery Directory, you can make a choice rooted in peace, love, and legacy. If you need help comparing cemeteries, understanding pricing, or reviewing burial options, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.